God Likes Anal Sex
I didn't think much of it when 
I saw that The Surrender had been released a few weeks back, but after reading the NY Observer review and particularly this interview with the author [Salon premium content], I'm going to have to get my hands on a copy. The book is a memoir of former dancer Toni Bentley's sex life after getting divorced and how she came to enjoy the love that dare not speak its name - anal sex - and how it led to God.
I saw that The Surrender had been released a few weeks back, but after reading the NY Observer review and particularly this interview with the author [Salon premium content], I'm going to have to get my hands on a copy. The book is a memoir of former dancer Toni Bentley's sex life after getting divorced and how she came to enjoy the love that dare not speak its name - anal sex - and how it led to God.
This act took me to a place emotionally and mentally that I would call of a spiritual realm. The best way to say it is that I went beyond my own ego, and most of us are mired in ego 24/7: all the constant self-criticism, self-love, self-loathing.
While having this kind of sex [with A-Man] I went beyond this voice in my head and beyond all control. And I write in the book, beyond control lies God.
Giving up control is a profound thing. Who you do it with and the context of it is crucial. I transcended my own smaller, pettier self, transcended my own self-hatred, incredible neediness, incredible need for approval. I went beyond that and was kind of like free-floating in space or something. That is what I call the experience of God.
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